Kimmy Seltzer: Charisma, Confidence, Flirting + Finding Love

Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist.  With a vat of knowledge and experience as a therapist, certified style coach, dating coach, and matchmaker, she has helped people find lasting love and connection, attract success and build valuable relationships using her unique “confidence makeover” process. Using an outside-in approach, Kimmy implements targeted style, emotional and social intelligence in people’s lives using her signature formula, “The Charisma Quotient,” working on body language, first impressions, image and messaging and how it impacts attraction. This Los Angeles-based expert travels the country helping people discover confidence, charisma and connection as a speaker at National Matchmaking Conferences, eHarmony, Neutrogena, The Guild at Universal, UCLA and iDate. Kimmy is also a regular contributor to the Huffington Post with appearances in Cosmopolitan, Oprah Magazine, Redbook, Reader’s Digest, AskMen, Fox News Magazine, Yahoo and the Washington Examiner, among a myriad of other publications. You can also find Kimmy as the leading love expert on the traveling live dating show The Great Love Debate and the cable reality dating show, The Romance.  She is the Love Coach for the dating app Datefit.  You can also listen to her on her podcast, The Charisma Quotient.  And she currently is hosting The Flirt Academy workshops nationwide.

In this episode we speak about everything from:

~ Flirting. What it is and isn’t and how to do it well

~ Kimmy’s ‘red dress’ moment that changed her life for the better

~ what men desire and wish women would know

~ how similar fears exist for both men and women

~ a surprising fact that women do and don’t realize how it can push men away

~ dating your partner (and cultivating the spark for life)

~ how adventure and play are critical to sexy, connected relationships

~ dating during Covid + why more people are finding love now

~ goals, desires + patterns in your love life

~ and much more!

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