Truth & Tequila – The Real Undressed Podcast with Deborah Kagan

Are You Taking Things Personally?

It’s Truth + Tequila Tuesday!
This week’s questions comes from Laura and she says:
There’s a recurring issue I have with my siblings, there are 8 of us and I’m the oldest. I took care of everyone as we grew up. And now when we all get together it’s nice, fun and there’s family banter. But at some point, usually one of my brothers says something sarcastic or embarrassing to one of my youngest sisters, which just happened the other day. I got so irritated and worried that she was feeling criticized. And that’s when I said things that weren’t very nice. Almost like responding to it personally, like he said those things to me and I started telling him the way he should talk.

How to Activate Intution

It’s Truth + Tequila Tuesday!
This week’s questions comes from Stacy and she says:
I’m helping my elderly Mom through some health challenges right now and there’s a lot of anxiety around it all (for both of us). And she’s not the most expressive or communicative person, but when I talk with her she always tells me that what I say is exactly what she needed. And what I need right now are the right words and actions to speak to her. I want to be guided by spirit in communicating – so I can help and meet her needs. What do you suggest?

Domestic Violence Awareness Month

It’s October, which is Domestic Violence Awareness Month. And truly, why I do what I do, with this podcast, with all the Rock Your Mojo live events, programs and mentorship, is dedicated to the cause of ending domestic violence and sexual assault. Tune in to hear what’s coming up this month.

167.Mojo Lessons from My Grandma

Today was my Grandmother’s birthday.

She’s been gone for 23 years…but she’s always present in my heart. For those of you who’ve been around a while, you know that my Grandma was ‘my everything,’…..AND the bulk of what I do is inspired by her.

===> TUNE IN to hear the Mojo Lessons from Grandma in today’s episode

How to Access Pleasure through Surrender

It’s Truth + Tequila Tuesday!
This week’s question comes from Disturbed + Down, who says: I’m waking up most days feeling lousy…and I want to feel good.
Listen in as Deborah builds the case for the ultimate answer: surrender + pleasure = feel good.

How to Create Powerful Relationships

It’s Truth + Tequila Tuesday!

I’m sipping on some very fine tequila…

AND this week going to drop some truth that popped up as a theme this week in the open mentoring call I host, Mojo Monday Happy Hour. If you’re not on that list….ummmmm, hellooooo. Please get yourself on it ASAP because I’d LOVE to meet you and support you rockin’ your mojo. Complimentary access is yours – all linked in the full show notes.

Acknowledge Your Wins!

Welcome to Truth + Tequila!
This week’s question comes from Becca, who says:
I see myself in a recurrent situation. It comes from me being loyal to a fault. I feel like there is something not functioning right in my behavior because I knew from some news I got a least six months ago that I was not feeling good about my relationship with someone that I’ve known for a long time. This is a work relationship. However, I still continued on in the work relationship and all along I’ve been frustrated…So, I mean, how long does it take to step away from something that you know isn’t right for you? …

How to Consciously Masturbate

Welcome to Truth + Tequila!
This week’s question comes from Sarah, who simply says:
Can you masturbate too much?
Listen in as I share:
– the key questions to ask yourself about masturbation
– how conscious masturbation enhances intimacy
and so much more!

Mindset + Selflove

Welcome to Truth + Tequila!
This week’s question comes from Jill, who says:
Can you talk about the self love thing? I think it’s really hard. How do you do it?

This is a great topic and I’m glad you asked about it. It speaks to the first of the four pillars of MOJO—mindset.
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How to Access Pleasure in Your Body

Welcome to Truth + Tequila!
This week’s question comes from Jeff, who simply says:
What is a good mantra for getting in touch with your body and not being afraid of new sexual and pleasure experiences?
I really appreciate this question, Jeff. Because it speaks to your desire to connect with your body, pleasure and joining that with a conscious sexual experience.

===> TUNE IN to hear the response